Libra & Choices: The Struggle Is Real

We've been singing Libra's praises this whole season, and with good reason. Libras are fair-minded, balanced, and look good af. But behind all that classiness and rational thought, Libras are also burden by indecision.

Libra fans everywhere: be warned, this is no joke. As pride and stubbornness are the tragic flaws of Leo and Taurus (respectively), uncertainty is truly the achilles heel of our Libra loves. When it comes to Libra and choices, the struggle is very real.

So what are the causes of this paralyzing infliction? Here are a few symptoms to watch out for.

CONSTANT URGE TO MAINTAIN BALANCE

Libras (The Scales) are obsessed with balance. This is not always a bad thing - we look to our air sign friends to help restore equilibrium. But when it comes to making decisions, Libras burning desire to balance is a major factor of their uncertainty. 

OVER-ANALYZING SEVERAL GOOD OPTIONS

The justices of the zodiac, Libras have an innate ability to fairly consider all perspectives. But these air signs fall short when its time to use the gavel. Libras can be so transfixed by the array of options and outcomes, that they become totally incapable of making decisions.

SEVERE PEOPLE PLEASING

Lovely Libras are charming, friendly, and can adapt to many types of social situations. At the core of this air sign though, is a tiny scale afraid of being disliked. Libras seek approval from others, so these air signs would rather not compromise their reputation by making - what could potentially be - an unfavorable decision. 

AVOIDING CONFRONTATION LIKE THE PLAGUE

Even with their closest friends, family, and lovers, Libras are not well equipped for confrontation. In the rare instance that Libra has actually made a decision, their fear of conflict will prevent them from speaking up, and they would ultimately rather go with the flow than ruffle any feathers.

"I DON'T KNOW, YOU DECIDE"

If you've watched our video that accurately showcases the experience of dating each sign, you know Libra's catch phrase: "I don't know... yes, no? You decide." At the core of every Libra is the insatiable urge to pass off the decision making responsibility. Libras look to others to make the hard choices, while these justice-minded air signs happily plead the fifth. 

Interaction Each Sign is Likely to Have with a Libra

We good, bro?

ARIES: LIBRA TALKS ARIES OUT OF MAKING A TERRIBLE DECISION.

TAURUS: REDECORATE THE APARTMENT TOGETHER AND THEN GO WINE TASTING.

GEMINI: MEET FOR LUNCH, END UP AT A GRAND BALL, MAKE 1000 NEW FRIENDS.

CANCER: LIBRA MAKES CANCER CRY FROM LOGIC, FEELS BAD. (BUT NOT THAT BAD. COME ON, CANCER.)

LEO: TOGETHER TURN A BORING WORK EVENT INTO A DANCE PARTY.

VIRGO: CHEER EACH OTHER UP WITH COMPLIMENTS.

LIBRA: ENCOUNTER AT A CAFE TURNS INTO A 5 HOUR CONVERSATION, ASKED TO LEAVE BY CLOSING STAFF.

SCORPIO: LIBRA GETS LOST IN SCORPIO'S EYES.

SAGITTARIUS: DOMINATE THE CONVERSATION AT A DINNER PARTY.

CAPRICORN: LIBRA STARES INTO SPACE WHILE CAPRICORN TALKS ABOUT WORK.

AQUARIUS: AQUARIUS OFFENDS LIBRA'S BOSS. LIBRA DIES INSIDE.

PISCES: GET REALLY HIGH AND TALK ABOUT DREAMS.

How You Know Libra Has A Crush

Libras - ruled by Venus - can't help being helpless romantics. So what happens when these lovers get hit by cupid's bow? Here are the telltale signs of a crushing Libra.

WORKING LOOKS

The aesthetes of the zodiac, a Libra with a crush is going to make sure he or she is busting out all the best looks to impress. If you haven't noticed Libras impeccable wardrobe yet, you're definitely not going to miss it now. 

POETIC COMMUNICATION

Libras are lovers, and use their artistic sensibility to court their crushes. When Libra vibes, this air sign will send out an array of flirtatious messages over different channels. Don't be surprised if you get a handwritten note in the mail... Libras crush game is a classic one.

LAVISH DATES

When Libra is sprung on someone, they tend to romanticize the courtship experience. Libras will make sure his or her crush is adequately doted upon, so a vibing Libra will plan special occasions and unforgettable dates. Extra Libra points if they involve trips to museums or wineries. 

LONG-TERM VISIONING

These air signs love being in love, so a smitten Libra is going to enjoy the experience of falling head over heels. Don't be surprised a crushing Libra starts Heart Eyes-ing pretty early on, or even trying to take things to the "next level." Libras aren't afraid of being in relationships, so a Libra with a crush will definitely get serious in no time.

PARTNERING UP

We've told you all about how Libras hate being alone, and when a Libra has a crush, they're going to try to spend as much time with their object of desire as possible. This romantic Libra will stop at nothing to hang out, so if you find yourself suddenly living life with a plus one, you can guarantee that Libra's some caught feelings.

Snoop Dogg is a Libra.

Snoop is a Libra. He couldn't be more proud.

He's easygoing

and That's kind of an understatement

He's a great partner...

and collaborator

He gives everyone a chance, like a real diplomat

He's a Libra, through and through. And he knows it.

Why Libra Can't Be Alone (And How You Can Fix It)

Libra knows... All good things come in pairs. Why settle for going through life's routines by yourself when you can have a partner in crime? Although Libras crave commitment, they’re not the most decisive. Here are some ways Libra will need you to help make their lives a little easier.

1. GROCERY SHOPPING

This everyday and solitary activity gets rejuvenated when Libra has a partner. Indecisive Libra will need your help picking specifics, so as much as you might not even second guess which brand of OJ or chocolate you usually buy, your input means a lot.

2. EXERCISING

Trying out a new exercise class can be intimidating at first, especially if it’s something like SoulCycle or hot yoga. You’ll be that extra push for Libra to stay motivated.

3. VOLUNTEERING

Libra’s MO is to make the world a better place, and this comes in all shapes and sizes of community service and outreach. As much as Libra wants to clean the ocean one step at a time, you’ll be there to help them decide which organization to volunteer for. Make sure to show up with a smile on your face because Libra loves a partner who cares just as much about saving the world

4. WATCHING TV

#thisisfall which means “13 Days of Halloween” on ABC Family, “Scream Queens” on FOX, “American Horror Story: Hotel” on FX...you get the picture. Libra needs you there right next to them for some literal Netflix & chill.

5. COOKING

Your help and companionship in the kitchen will make Libra’s life infinitely easier. You’re sure to have a beautiful meal that would impress even the toughest “Chopped” judges, because we know how obsessed Libras are with all things presentation and aesthetics.

With great companionship in your Libra boo, who knows? Maybe you'll come around and see that activities you thought were better individually really are better with company.

How to Impress a Libra

Not easily impressed, Libra tends to stay comfortably neutral. Here are some Align tips for tipping a Libra's scales in your favor.

1. ASK QUESTIONS.

Once you show a Libra that you're interested in what they're saying, they'll open up like you've known each other forever. Give a mouse a cookie...

2. HAVE YOUR SHIT TOGETHER.

Libra, ruled by Venus, values your aesthetic choices. Wear simple colors and elegant clothes, in pastels or the classic black and white ensemble. Need some help choosing an outfit? We've got you covered.

3. RECOGNIZE WHAT THEY WANT TO DO, AND PRESENT IT LIKE YOU THOUGHT OF IT.

Here's the thing. Libra really wants something, but they'll always defer to you. "What do you want to do?" "Where should we go for dinner?"  Instead of turning the question back to Libra, which will only make him or her uncomfortable, suggest something you know they are thinking but not saying.

4. HAVE A PASSION.

While they're the best devil's advocates, they still admire people with passion. After all, they have to play devil against someone who can defend their position...

5. CLEAN YOUR ROOM.

Libras notice everything around them. So no presh, but you better make sure your shit's immaculate when they come over.

6. FIND THE NICEST VIEW OF THE SUNSET, PROCEED TO EXPLORE THEIR SOUL.

Libra's symbol is the sun setting over water, representing the harmony between day and night. They feel at peace in this place of balance, and you'll feel at peace too with a glass of wine in hand and the best company you could ask for.